Things have been really good for the most part. I get quite uncomfortable when we get intimate and have sex as I'm not really sexually attracted to her. She's typically the one to initiate sex, and it always takes some warming up for me to get into it. We've been together for long and now this has really started causing problems to our relationship.
My girlfriend and I are both My first girlfriend lasted for 5 years throughout college, so a part of me feels like I missed out on my college experience a little bit. I am in love with her, and the feeling's reciprocated. Since then, on and off, I begin to look at her and only notice the physical. We were like the same person — we had such great talks and I became instantly hooked on her. I feel like such a terrible person because it seems like such a shallow, superficial thing to turn into a wedge issue. I then wen't for a girl who is an awesome person but who I don't really find sexually attractive. We have a great connection, her folks love me, my folks love her. She's typically the one to initiate sex, and it always takes some warming up for me to get into it. I am now a shallow person but I'm starting to learn that maybe you need to have that lust and passion to keep a relationship going. However, she was different than my previous relationships — this one started off as friends first and then became physical. Mentally and emotionally, the relationship is very satisfying. Has anyone experienced anything similar? Things have been great. Things have been really good for the most part. I really hope this is something wrong with me which I can fix and not our relationship, because I really do love her and she really loves me. I was always taught that when it comes to a relationship looks don't matter, that's it's all about the personality. First, this is a throwaway account. Please don't just reply "Break up with her" etc, I would much rather hear a bit more if you think it can work or not or if you have experienced something like this yourself. Second, here's the info: I'm just at such a loss lately. But if you're going to spend your life with one person, sleeping with just that one person, shouldn't you be sexually attracted to them? It's not depression I'm not depressed , and it's not physical I'm young, and have actually lost a healthy amount of weight through a new diet and steady exercise. We had so much fun together. I have dated a good number of people in the past, but only truly had 2 girlfriends before the current one. We've been dating nearly two years.
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