Which leads me to my next point. It is kind of impossible for that not to happen. I can only comment on a marriage like mine, where two people decided to commit to one another because, quite simply, life together felt better than life apart.
People that are generally more mature at a young age are probably more apt to take a step like marriage before others in their age group. While we enjoy going out together, we still maintain our own identities and can function as individuals. Of course, aspects of my life did change in that I make a concerted effort to always clear time in my day to spend alone with my wife. That being said, I would like to dispel some of the myths about marriage I have confronted over time. In fact, I think I party more with my friends now than I did before I was married. The funny thing about marrying someone you love is, when the time comes, the bullshit cluttering your life just kind of falls away to make room for that person. Just the other night, while hosting a sleep over for my niece, my wife gave me the go-ahead to go out and get a drink with a close friend who had just moved back to town. I cannot comment on marriages of convenience, necessity, or religious belief. However, that does mean all my hobbies have disappeared in some ill-fated ascetic attempt to demonstrate my love for this woman. You keep the aspects of your old self that are important to you while still changing in some ways that make you better together. And we were both fine with that scenario. And there is comfort in that chaos. I will be the first to admit that marriage is not for everyone. There could be another women in the world who would make me happy, but I found her. Obviously, no one I would ever associate with actually believes that life literally ends at marriage like some sort of Twilight wet dream. I think a lot of that has to do with erroneous and preconceived notions about marriage, at least marriage as I know it. I still play video games, take French classes, play in a terrible softball league and watch football on Sundays. But those trends began appearing in my life long before I got hitched. It is almost inconceivable to people that someone as young and moderately not bad looking as myself could have tied the knot so early. However, I think that this claim is a self-fulfilling prophecy. They write me off as an aberration and pity my fate. They try to rationalize it by asking about my religion, political views, birth defects, history of mental illness, etc. You see, being married to a gracious woman who does not drink often is kind of like having your own personal designated driver. There are still moments when I am surprised at how good she can make me feel. I am having more sex than any of my unmarried friends. However, many friends and acquaintances of mine have expressed the opinion that my social life, outside pursuits, etc. As a year-old married man who looks younger , I get that look all the time.
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